ME FIRST, THEN EVERYONE ELSE

You’ve mistaken being kind for letting people walk all over you.

That changes now.

120 guided sessions built around uncomfortable truths to help you set boundaries, stop putting yourself last, and start choosing yourself—with less guilt.

Small steps. Honest reflection. A place for your needs, too.

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Start as soon as your purchase is complete.

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On your phone, tablet, or computer.

📝 Print-friendly
Prefer pen and paper? Print the pages you want to work through.

Does any of this feel familiar?

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  • You want to say no, but the guilt starts before you’ve even answered.
  • You give your time and energy, then wonder why your needs always come last.
  • You find yourself in the same relationship patterns—with different people.
  • You’ve spent so long adjusting to what everyone else needs that you’ve lost sight of what you want.

You keep things easy for everyone else.

But it’s getting harder to ignore what it’s costing you.

A process—not just another book to read.

Move from understanding the pattern to practicing a different response.

Recognizing yourself in a sentence can be powerful.

But what happens the next time someone asks for something you don’t want to give?

Me First, Then Everyone Else offers a structured path: notice what you’ve come to accept, explore the patterns behind it, and begin making different choices in everyday life.

01 — Notice what you’ve been treating as normal.

Each session starts with situations you can recognize: saying yes to avoid conflict, feeling responsible for someone else’s mood, or putting your plans aside again.

Make space to ask what you feel, what you need, and what you’ve been overlooking.

02 — Follow a path instead of collecting scattered advice.

The 120 sessions give your reflection a structure.

Take one step at a time, rather than jumping between quotes and tips without knowing how to bring them together.

03 — Bring what you learn into your everyday choices.

Set aside 10–15 minutes for a session.

Read. Pause. Reflect.

Then consider how what you’ve noticed could change your next conversation, decision, or response.

Find your way back to yourself. ✨

Build the tools to:

  • Say no with clarity, without turning every answer into a long explanation.
  • Recognize which relationships support you—and which consistently leave you drained.
  • Make a little time each day for your own needs.
  • Explore what you’re ready to let go of.
  • Notice familiar patterns before stepping into them again.

You can care about the people in your life and still make room for yourself.

Your complete digital collection

Main digital book and all six bonus guides

Me First, Then Everyone Else

120 guided sessions built around uncomfortable truths + 6 bonus digital guides

A structured collection for exploring boundaries, relationship patterns, emotional burdens, and the habit of putting everyone else first.

Get the main digital book + all six bonus guides for $27 USD.

✓ Instant access after purchase
✓ Main digital book + six bonus guides
✓ Read on your phone, tablet, or computer
✓ Print the pages you prefer to use on paper

15-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Take 15 days to explore the material. If you decide it isn’t for you, request a refund within 15 days of purchase.

Six bonus guides, included at no extra cost. 🎁

Support for different parts of the process—from carrying other people’s emotions to finding your footing after a breakup.

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BONUS 1 — This Pain Isn’t Mine

Separate what you’re going through from the emotional burdens you’re carrying for your mom, your partner, or your boss.

Explore where support ends and taking everything on begins.

INCLUDED FREE

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BONUS 2 — The Day I Realized I Didn’t Know How to Love

Why you keep ending up in the same story with a different person.

Look more closely at the patterns you bring into relationships—and what you want to choose differently.

INCLUDED FREE

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BONUS 3 — While I’m Getting Over You

For the first ninety days: what to do when you feel the urge to text them.

Support for the moments when missing someone makes you want to reach out again.

INCLUDED FREE

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BONUS 4 — Broken, but Still Moving Forward

When the worst is over, but you don’t know what to do with what’s left.

Make room to reflect on what comes next while you’re still finding your footing.

INCLUDED FREE

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BONUS 5 — P.S. One Day, You Won’t Hurt Anymore

As the pain eases, explore how to keep from running back to what you’ve already let go.

Reflect on what you want to carry forward—and what you want to leave behind.

INCLUDED FREE

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BONUS 6 — 50 Daily Doses of Self-Love

One page a day. Two minutes. For the days when you forget everything you’ve learned.

Short reflections to return to when putting yourself first feels difficult again.

INCLUDED FREE

All six bonus guides are included with your purchase.

Before you begin

A few questions you might have.

This is a fully digital collection. No physical books will be shipped.

You can read it on your phone, tablet, or computer, or print the pages you’d like to use on paper.

This time, make room for yourself.

You’ve made room for other people’s plans, feelings, and needs.

Yours deserve a place, too.

Begin with one session and take the next step toward relationships where you matter as well.

Get the main digital book + all six bonus guides for $27 USD.

✓ Instant digital access
✓ 120 guided sessions built around uncomfortable truths
✓ Six bonus guides included
✓ 15-Day Money-Back Guarantee